{"id":175395,"date":"2023-05-12T15:55:20","date_gmt":"2023-05-12T15:55:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/precoinnews.com\/?p=175395"},"modified":"2023-05-12T15:55:20","modified_gmt":"2023-05-12T15:55:20","slug":"woman-whos-used-wheelchair-all-her-life-hires-escort-to-lose-virginity-aged-43","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/precoinnews.com\/world-news\/woman-whos-used-wheelchair-all-her-life-hires-escort-to-lose-virginity-aged-43\/","title":{"rendered":"Woman who’s used wheelchair all her life hires escort to lose virginity aged 43"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Ms Hawkes told the BBC she has been confined to a wheelchair since the age of 3 as she suffers from an inflammation of the spinal cord, a condition known as transverse myelitis.<\/p>\n
In the years after her injury, she said shut the possibility of sex out of her life for decades as she believed she would never find a partner to be intimate with.<\/p>\n
However, this all changed after a conversation with her support worker when they were isolated together during the pandemic.<\/p>\n
Ms Hawkes decided to take the plunge and book a session with an escort agency. It was during this search that she booked Chayse.<\/p>\n
Ahead of their first session, and to get comfortable with each other, Ms Hawkes told the BBC they had several video calls.<\/p>\n
Ms Hawkes said: \u201cI asked a million questions. Have you ever used a hoist before? Is your apartment wheelchair accessible? How often does the lift in your place break down?\u201d<\/p>\n
When she was ready, Ms Hawkes travelled to Chayse\u2019s property where the enormity of what was about to occur hit her. She said: \u201cI knew I was out of my depth with sexual knowledge and I felt completely overwhelmed with the expert that was standing in front of me.\u201d<\/p>\n
Despite this, Ms Hawkes realised that while Chayse was an expert in one respect, she was an expert in another.<\/p>\n
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She explained: \u201cI am an expert with disability and Chayse had no idea. We ended up laughing at each other\u2019s ignorance and naivety. Two hours later we were the best of buddies.\u201d<\/p>\n
Speaking about his role Chayse, who has previously worked with people who have experienced trauma, said \u201ccreating a safe welcoming space where she\u2019s in control\u201d was his top priority.<\/p>\n
Ms Hawkes\u2019 reflected on the dynamic between the two. She said: \u201cI knew that by booking Chayse and paying for a service, I was in control. I knew that if Chayse treated me differently or did something I didn\u2019t like he would stop. It\u2019s hard not to fall in love with Chayse, but I have to remind myself that it is a professional relationship.\u201d<\/p>\n
Don’t miss… <\/strong> After these experiences, Melanie says she now feels they have given her greater power in every aspect of her life.<\/p>\n Alongside providing his skills as a sex worker, Chayse has also been trying to support Melanie in different ways. He has been talking with a dating coach so he can help Melanie with future dates.<\/p>\n Ms Hawkes said she is now looking for a “Chayse replacement” and is even logging into dating apps daily to find true love.<\/p>\n
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